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This Is Not Cancer
              
 
A Car Show   
    
August 2017: Valerie couldn't open packages or button her shirts anymore, adding to her difficulties in breathing and swallowing. In August we attended a car show at a local Church. While there we took note of upper back massages where a chiropractor examined her and then used some type of machine, he then confused as he felt around. He did not perform any massage and asked Valerie to make an appointment with his office the following week.

We made the appointment. When I saw her X-rays my response was; Oh God No! Days later, our primary care  ordered an MRI and my fears were confirmed. Valerie also suffering breathing and swallowing difficulties was ruled inoperable.
 
   
    
    
October 2017   
    
We had long standing arrangements to fly to Germany on October 13, 2017 where we decided to see the Neurosurgeon that operated on me in 2014.  
    
Landing   
    
On our flight over Valerie became very disoriented. Once we landed she became wobbly and looked at me in despair. Whereas, I should've asked for emergency medical attention right then and there, but foolishly did not as to not draw attention which was again stupid to worry about such.

I finally was able to get Valerie into our rental car. I then turned on our Garmin with its European chip where we left the airport garage and entered the highway and the Garmin didn't work. The Mercedes's GPS system was in German and I couldn't get the settings to switch to English. So, we were driving with no bearings.

We finally found a place to pull off, whereas I attempted to find a hotel or Guesthouse and couldn't. Valerie asked if we could please just sleep in the car? She was hurting. I finally found a Guesthouse, hit enter, and off we went. We arrived and checked in, the Guesthouse remote.
 
    
Guesthouse   
    
The following morning we had breakfast. As we got up to leave Valerie wasn't with me. She went over to speak with other fellow, however uneasy Americans. We went up to our room where a little while later I came down the small elevator to the lobby which was behind a steel lobby door.

The fellow Americans came through the lobby door before I had a chance to open it where wife grabbed her heart and dropped against the steel door. She finally composed herself and stated how lovely my wife was. Her husband's temperament was of frustration and embarrassment. We said our pleasantries and parted ways.
 
    
Change It Up   

Now I'm later told a security practice is to have individuals or couples change off as they follow persons of interest. Though this scenario was likely innocent, I couldn't take the chance as it wasn't associated with any Government, (too sloppy).
    
A Moment Of Peace    
    
I am getting ahead of myself. We then needed money from America to pay for Valerie's unexpected surgery. I'd locate the American consulate in Munich as a backup route. I'd then make every attempt to get the money transferred from America.

On the other hand, there were friends that would readily provide the funds. Those, who had and would stick by us like no others who cared for Valerie and noticed my stress. The husband wanting to see if I was even capable of smiling took me in his unrestored 100 year old British Humber to his local village church where "O Tannenbaum" was written.
 
    
Surgery & Stirrings   
    
We made it to the Neurosurgeon. He informed us of Valerie's symptoms before we did. I had never observed such a step by step diagnosis breakdown in person before. Seeing my stress he stated this is not cancer. I will fix her and gave us a November 7, 2017 date and we took it and let others know in America.  
    
Where Are You?   
    
Valerie's unexpected surgery would require paperwork to arrange fund transfers to Europe. So we purchased a small printer / scanner and other items and contacted the American entity that manages financial transfers. He would ask; "Where are you? He's operating when? This hasn't happened before".

At another guesthouse, two beautiful ladies were suspicious, (especially when you arrive with an office), and asked for our passports. I would also provide our trigoot.com website. (An alternative version of this one). The next day we encounter the most relaxed and peaceful face on one lady who says; I read your site; “Ah “The Pink Lady". The website had broken the ice and we were treated as though all had known us for years. It was a show stopper where I realized how truly powerful it was.
 
    

A Whirlwind

  
On the day of Valerie's surgery we received a call from America and are informed that a whirlwind of Local and International activities had begun as soon as we stepped foot on our plane to Germany on October 13th. (The activities are listed in chronological order on our page: The How Could This Have Been Allowed)  
 
    
February of 2018 - Both Hands!   
    

Three months after my wife had two titanium cervical discs implanted in Germany, she was diagnosed with bilateral thumb joint deterioration—a rare condition. I still remember a staff member’s stunned reaction: “Both hands?!”

All because of the hell the Generic Drug Levofloxacin released on her. To keep her thumbs in place, she had to wear rigid shell braces. Now, I always move fast which upsets opportunists, especially when it comes to research—especially for her. Back in 2014, I’d confirmed that Germany was leading innovation in spinal implants. An ER physician told us then, “Most cutting-edge medical devices come from Germany.”


While researching thumb implants, I found something surprising: the U.S. was ahead. I found a titanium thumb implant I trusted and scheduled a consultation. Strangely, the surgeon recommended we look to Europe. I pushed back: “No, America’s is ahead in thumb implants.


I called the manufacturer directly. They connected us with a specialist in Raleigh, North Carolina. The surgeon was stunned.“You contacted the manufacturer yourself?”I thought: Doesn’t everyone?

 
       
       

       
    
September to December of 2018   
    
August of 2018: My wife received her First Titanium Surgical Thumb Joint Implanted.

September of 2018:
I'd suffer a violent hotel fall o
n our way home from WV after visiting my father. Days later, my father passes away. On the day of my his funeral I'm getting injections in my right shoulder and hip in NC.

October of 2018: German friends who had taken care for us during Valerie's unexpected November
of 2017 surgical situation arrives. Their first questions being of my father. I'd inform them that he was fine on the same day as his funeral. A choice.

December of 2018: My wife has her Second Titanium Surgical Thumb Joint Implanted.
 
    
March to October of 2019   
    
March of 2019: I have Titanium Rods inserted through my Right Hip.

June of 2019: I have shoulder surgery, and this time observers are present and I am asked if I'm Military.


October 16, 2019: Valerie has a Composite Joint Surgically implanted in her Right Foot.
   
    
Realities   

A hindsight view was that 2014 was our last "unrealized" chance to regain our lives. Our return to America only condemned Valerie shortly thereafter.
O
ur years of Domestic Medical and Financial hardships meant to belabor us toward Non-Western Interests.  As to the reasons? This is for others to discern.

If not for Western Germans guarding us like hawks where would we have been by now?

 
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